How to support newborn mothers
Your practice kit for mother-centred postpartum care
Welcome! Here youāll learn hands-on skills and strategies to provide high-quality postpartum support to your clients or loved ones.
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Jump to: Physical recovery | Food | Mental health | Breastfeeding | Sleep | Village-building
How to support postpartum physical recovery the right way
The first four to six weeks postpartum are a significant time for rest and recovery. Traditional cultures and modern science both recognise this as a unique phase requiring special care.
Why? Because during this stage, a motherās body experiences dramatic changes. Breasts start producing milk, the uterus shrinks, and bleeding stops.
These are huge changesā¦yet modern mothers are often expected to be up and moving around within days (or sometimes hours!) of giving birth.
This pressure to ābounce backā quickly can have long-lasting impacts, like postpartum depletion, depression, or chronic poor health.
So how do we actually help a newborn mother recover well?
The posts below explore practical ways to support rest and healing in the weeks after birth.
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A step-by-step guide to postpartum food
During pregnancy, thereās a lot of focus on what mothers should eat (or mostly, not eat). But after birth, nutrition often goes out the window.
However, food is really important in postpartum, too.
Newborn mothers are recovering from birth, replenishing nutrient stores, and producing breastmilk (often while running on very little sleep). Thatās a lot of work and it canāt be sustained on tea and toast.
You might be wondering what exactly to feed a newborn mother.
Luckily, postpartum food doesnāt need to be complicated or restrictive. You donāt have to be a nutritionist to ensure a mother gets fed well.
Across cultures and throughout history, there are some simple, consistent patterns in how newborn mothers are nourished. When you understand these patterns, you have a flexible framework you can adapt to any family.
We teach care providers how to translate those traditional principles into modern, practical postpartum nutrition.
The posts in this guide focus on easy ways to put this into practice, from delicious recipes to inspiring interviews.
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Newborn Mothers: When a Baby is Born, So is a Mother
Your invitation to join a gentle, internal revolution in your heart and in your home.
Help newborn mothers get more sleep (without stress or struggle)
Topics like co-sleeping, sleep training, and bedtime routines are conversational firecrackers. They often bring out strong opinions (even from people who donāt have babies of their own!)
But sleep is shaped by culture, upbringing, values, and personal experience. Thereās no one way that sleep āshouldā happen for babies. Infant sleep doesnāt follow one blueprint, and families are rarely working within the same conditions.
Sleep-deprived parents deserve evidence-based support that is practical, adaptable, and grounded in what works for the whole family.
How can we help new parents get more rest, while still supporting biologically normal infant sleep?
The posts below explore sleep strategies that you can adapt for families of all kinds, whatever their beliefs or needs.
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Support mothers to breastfeed (even if youāve never done it yourself)
What if we could help all parents meet their own breastfeeding goals, whether they want to breastfeed for 6 weeks or 3 years?
Breastfeeding is often central to the postpartum experience. When itās going well, everything else tends to slip into place. But when there are challenges, the stress and worry can pile on.
Many postpartum care providers want to support breastfeeding, but feel unsure where they fit.
Some people worry they donāt have enough formal training. Others rely too heavily on their own personal experience, even though that wonāt be relevant to every family.
The key shift is learning how to explain breastfeeding in simple, grounded language that parents can understand every step of the way.
Itās not about providing more and more information, itās about knowing what to say and when.
The posts in this breastfeeding guide explore how to support breastfeeding with confidence. Find out how breastfeeding actually works, when to refer to a specialist, how to manage common concerns and lots more.
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Postpartum Education and Care Professional training
An online, worldwide training program of 12 modules with the option of self-study or live classes.
Ultimate guide to maternal mental health
Mental health during postpartum is quite complex. Itās shaped by a lot of different things, including sleep, nutrition and social support.
But most of the time, it only gets talked about when thereās an issue. Maternal mental health gets reduced to problems, diagnoses, and āfixingā whatās wrong.
This sometimes means a mother may feel somethingās wrong with her brain, when itās equally likely that she just isnāt getting the support she needs.
Postpartum mental health isnāt something mothers are meant to navigate alone. Support, environment, and connection are key.
When mental health goes wobbly, thereās rarely just one cause or one clear answer.
If we shift away from āfixingā and toward understanding, it becomes easier to see what mothers need in this period.
The posts in this guide explore how to support mental wellness as a postpartum care provider.
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Build a 21st century village
Village-building might just be the most under-recognised tool in postpartum care! Itās also one of the most important.
Humans evolved to raise babies in supportive communities. For as long as people have been having babies, care was shared across families and friends.
But most new families today no longer have that kind of support system. Mothers are navigating postpartum alone, and itās exhausting.
This is where postpartum care providers play a crucial role. Not by becoming the village, but by helping build one.
This might look like connecting mothers to local resources and groups, helping mobilise friends and family, or guiding families toward the right specialist support when needed.
Itās a skillset thatās often overlooked, but it can completely change a familyās postpartum experience.
So what does it actually look like to build a strong community around a new family today?
This guide explores how we can help newborn mothers build a postpartum village of support that may last them a lifetime.
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Hi, Iām Julia Jones!
I am the founding director of Newborn Mothers, a postpartum doula, educator and best-selling author.
For the last 10 years, I have trained over 1500 postpartum professionals in over 60 countries through my worldwide leading education training for postpartum professionals.
I believe we need a renaissance in our cultural understanding of postpartum and I aim to influence systemic change.